Sonoma county: What to Know Before You Go

Returning to Sonoma felt like a warm, wine-scented hug from the universe. I forgot how much I love it here. This wasn’t my first time, but it was definitely the most “me” version of the trip I’ve taken - and I covered a lot of ground. Think wine tastings, small towns, beautiful stays, and incredible solo moments that reminded me why I travel this way in the first place.

And let’s be honest, I totally went on a date.

I’m already plotting ways to get more people here, especially my solo travelers. Sonoma is truly that girl when it comes to chill, beautiful, unpretentious California escapes. If you’ve been thinking about booking a trip for some solo time, wine time, or just a change of scenery, let this be your sign.

I based myself in Santa Rosa at the adorable Hotel E, and I’d 100 percent recommend it for solo travelers. It’s right on Courthouse Square, super walkable, stylish without trying too hard, and just felt easy. You know when you check into a place and immediately feel like you can relax and/or drop and go explore? It’s giving you both vibes.

Oh, and there were robes.

Also, shoutout to the customer service, which was genuinely amazing. Every person I interacted with was kind, helpful, and made me feel completely taken care of. That kind of experience goes a long way when you're traveling solo.

What I Ate (because obviously)

• Spinster Sisters
  I landed, checked in, and headed straight here for a light dinner... and wow. Seasonal, fresh, thoughtful flavors in a cozy setting. They have a fantastic garden but, unfortunately, the night was too cold for me to enjoy.

• Little Saint in Healdsburg
  OK, this is a vegan restaurant and I need you to trust me here. I had the best quiche of my life and I say that as someone who is not vegan. Everything was beautifully prepared, and the space itself is stunning—like an art gallery meets wellness retreat.

• Red Bird Bakery
  This spot is full of charm and carbs. Their baked goods are next level. I grabbed a pastry and coffee here one morning and honestly wished I had time to go back for more.

• The Barlow in Sebastopol
  If you’ve never heard of it, The Barlow is an open-air market district made up of old warehouses turned into restaurants, tasting rooms, breweries, shops, and art galleries. It has a laid-back, industrial-cool vibe and tons of amazing food options. I spent an afternoon here eating, wandering, and people-watching. Definitely a must-visit if you’re hopping around Sonoma County.

• Bloom Carneros
  This place was such a beautiful surprise. Elegant, seasonal dishes that felt both elevated and comforting. I could see this being perfect for a solo lunch with a book or a slow dinner with someone special. Either way, it’s worth a visit.

• Bonus Bite
  I almost forgot to mention Rocker Oysterfeller's at the Wharf in Bodega Bay. Great views, super fresh seafood, and a really cozy, coastal atmosphere. Perfect spot to stop if you're heading out toward the coast for a change of pace.

What I drank (because even more obviously)

• Iron Horse Vineyards
  This was, hands down, my favorite. I had the best sparkling rosé of my life here and absolutely bought a $75 bottle to bring home like the sparkling-obsessed human I am. My somm, Christy, was amazing—warm, knowledgeable, and just made the whole experience feel elevated but totally approachable. The views? Unreal. The history? Even better. It’s worth noting that Iron Horse’s sparkling wines have been served at the White House during various administrations, including President Obama’s inauguration gala. They also produce a Rainbow Cuvée to celebrate Pride Month, with proceeds supporting LGBTQ+ organizations. Obsessed isn’t even the word.

• Gundlach Bundschu
  A classic and a favorite for a reason. The setting is beautiful, the wine is fantastic, and the whole experience just feels relaxed and welcoming. Definitely book a tasting here if you want good wine with a view and a vibe.

• Sangiacomo Wines
  Gorgeous space, super knowledgeable staff, and the kind of small-lot wines that feel special without being intimidating. I left wanting to order a case for my next dinner party.

• Abbot’s Passage
  If you like your wine with a side of cool-girl energy, this is your spot. Think curated interiors, cozy patio seating, and wine flights that actually feel fun. Great for solo travelers who want a low-pressure but elevated experience.

• Cooperage Brewing Company
  Needed a little wine break, and this brewery was the perfect spot to hang for a bit. Chill energy, super friendly staff, and great beer. Also a solid solo stop when you just want to post up and relax.

• Emeritus Vineyards
  OK, so this one has a story. I got to drink wine straight from the barrel here. My date snuck me in, and it was honestly one of the coolest things I’ve ever done. The property is gorgeous and the wine was top-notch, but that behind-the-scenes peek made it extra special.

Here are some tips to keep in mind when traveling to Sonoma:

1. A car is a must
If you want to explore freely, you’ll need a car. But if you’re planning to drink (and let’s be honest, you are), hire a driver or take Ubers. Don’t risk it.

2. Ubers exist, but give it time
They’re not instant. Expect 10 to 20 minutes for a pickup, depending on where you are. Plan ahead so you’re not stuck in the middle of a vineyard with a buzz and no ride.

3. Two wineries a day, maybe three max
It sounds light, but trust me - it’s a lot of wine. The pours may be small, but it adds up quickly. Space them out, drink water, and snack often.

4. The weather is magic
Cool mornings, warm sunny afternoons, and chilly evenings. It’s that perfect wine-sipping weather. Bring layers.

5. Every area has its own vibe
Healdsburg feels polished and stylish. Sebastopol is more artsy and chill. Santa Rosa is central and easygoing. Calistoga gives you that rustic spa town energy with natural hot springs and a slower pace. Explore them all if you can.

6. There’s a Peanuts museum in Santa Rosa
Yes, that Peanuts. Charles M. Schulz lived here, and there’s a whole museum dedicated to his life and legacy. Even if you’re not a die-hard fan, it’s a fun, unexpected stop that adds a little nostalgia to your wine trip. Plus, Snoopy ice rink? Adorable.

7. Most people fly into San Francisco
It’s about 1 hour and 20 minutes from SFO to Sonoma without traffic. And yes, there’s usually traffic. Plan your arrival and tasting times accordingly.

8. Book your tastings in advance
Don’t expect to just walk in everywhere. Some wineries require appointments, and the best ones fill up fast. Make a little itinerary, even if it's loose.

9. Not all tastings are the same
Some are casual and chill. Others are full-on, curated experiences. Read the vibe online or call ahead so you’re not underdressed or overwhelmed.

10. Solo travelers are welcome here
Seriously. I never once felt out of place. People were friendly, staff were warm, and I got to experience everything on my own terms. If you’ve been waiting for a sign to go solo—this is it.

If you’re considering Sonoma for a solo trip, I can’t recommend it enough. Whether you’re sipping your way through hillside vineyards, exploring charming towns like Healdsburg and Calistoga, or treating yourself to a slow solo dinner with a view, Sonoma is the kind of place that feels welcoming, inspiring, and effortlessly cool. It’s easy to navigate, full of personality, and perfect for travelers who want a little indulgence without the overwhelm.

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